“Every woman has the exact love life she wants.” – The Wedding Date
We hear all the time about people doing bad things in relationships or dating the wrong guys or taking time just to be single. But what if that’s all subconsciously exactly what everyone wants – drama, freedom, or a fixer upper relationship? Do people inadvertently bring all that on themselves because deep down it’s what they want?
“We accept the love we think we deserve.” – The Perks of Being a Wallflower
Or is it just a trick of our subconscious that makes us believe we want for ourselves less than what we actually give to others? Why do we treat ourselves with such unkindness? Why don’t we believe in ourselves and the happiness that we are all entitled to enjoy? Why linger in dead end relationships or unhappy marriages or wait in the wings for people who can never be The One?